A Meeting Place for Early loss twins

This is really my twin's Enjy's place, not mine. S/He does not have any other place in this world. S/He was miscarried at age four months in the womb. We were twins and made to be together for years and we were torn apart within seconds. This is the place where I go to talk to him/her and about him/her. Anyone who has lost a twin in utero or very early is very welcome here to read and share.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Prenatal memory

All in-utero loosers have to struggle with the fact that we can never 100% be sure that we really remember being in the womb with our twins and not imagine things from post-natal ideas. Here is a story I read on the internet I found encouraging: A father was commenting on a blog on pre-natal development. He said he took care of his daughter soon after birth since her other felt overwhelmed by the task and later left the family. She hadn't wanted the baby to begin with and had tried to hit her belly during the pregnancy to evoke an abortion. He never told his daughter that but when she was about three he was looking at a picture of his wife during the pregnancy, when suddenly the girl said "I was crying for help then". When he looked at his daughter, shocked, and asked her "why did you cry for help?"  the girl punched her tummy with her fists and said: "Mummy was doing like this."
He says he didn't use to believe in pre-natal memory, ut he does now.b


  1. This father's information is really amazing! Based on what I have read in books and what twins and twinless twins have stated I think there is a lot of merit to this story. Thanks for sharing it Angela.

  2. Thats an impressing and interesting story, very touching!

    Also I generally like that you made a blog for you 'lost' twin brother! I hope you'll cary on sometime soon. (-: